Hello and welcome back to my blog. Today I will be talking about a tv show that I have recently started watching called “Vidya”. This is a Hindi tv show about a young widow who was denied education when she was younger and now has to teach in a school without a real degree. Vidya’s in-laws forced her to get a job at a school as an English teacher even though she doesn’t have the basic education of a 5th grader.
Now you may be wondering how it’s possible to get a job without the actual job qualifications…well let me tell you that when you have some money, you are always able to cheat the system and get a fake degree!
Now this unique plot wasn’t the only thing that catch my attention, it was also how Vidya was being treated by everyone around her which sadly is the case of many women in South Asia today.
At a young age, Vidya’s father told her to stop going to school and to help her mother in the kitchen. Many women even today do not get basic education due to the stereotype of women only being housewives. Daughters are often not sent to school since it’s more important that their brothers get the education as they will be the ones running the house later on in their life. If a girl studies and gets a degree, it is all seen as a waste since she doesn’t not need a degree to learn how to take care of a household. This is the reason why mothers rather being teaching their daughters how to cook, clean, and obey their husbands rather than being educated.
Since Vidya does not have an education, she is often manipulated by the others around her and feels helpless 24/7. Men in these societies love to gain power over almost everything. So when a woman is not able to advocate for herself and is “weak”, men feel amazing. In every village you could easily find the elder men and women who are strictly against education for women as it gives more power to women over men and breaks tradition.
Every girl and woman deserves an equal opportunity to education!